Achieve True Happiness

Happiness is the dream of every person. He missed but often did not come. Until people are always motivated to achieve that happiness. Thus, although there is suffering, basically humans tend to crave happiness.
People are supposed to be happy. Happiness is a choice. Although human disaster often overridden even in a row, he can still feel happy. That is, there is an option when people feel under such conditions. Whether he will remain in misery or choose not to drown in their suffering. Instead of suffering that he used as a foothold to feel happiness.

A great poet and mystic named Sa'di Shirazi never felt the sadness in his heart because he lost his shoes. He suffered. Until at some point in the Kufa mosque, he saw someone who had lost both his legs. However, the person is not seen to suffer.
Sa'di then feel the feelings of others. He does still have no shoes, but he no longer suffers. He then prostrated to Allah gratefully. Sa'di feelings changed over the calamities that he experienced.
Religion has been declared, so that people do not mourn what is lost from them and not too light-hearted with what came to him. True happiness is contentment to accept what Allah has destined. This includes lost when overwritten. Although many people are fixated with a loss that happened to him.
They had a missing tile syndrome or missing tile syndrome. At one time someone saw the roof of his house, he saw the roof was complete. At the next moment, he saw there was one missing tile on the roof of his house. The man kept thinking about the missing tiles. Forgetting all the nice tile roof still in the house. This makes it suffer. This is true in life. If someone continues to focus on something that is missing, of course not going to make her happy.
Running away from God's command and His prohibition is also a staircase to achieve happiness. Because the ultimate goal of all God's commandments is to achieve happiness. God tells them to bowing and prostration and do good for man to be happy. "Who would turn away from me, he will earn a narrow." (Qur'an 20: 124).
In addition, it enjoyed undue own happiness. If you follow the Prophet Muhammad, then a Muslim will not monopolize such happiness. Therefore, the Prophet Muhammad once stated is the most important charity if it makes other people happy.